Mama Bears


"A good mama bear knows when to growl and when to grin." - Nancy Jergins 

 No matter how old your kids get, the urge to be a mama bear doesn't go away. I've just learned how to control her better. For me, the trigger was always another kid making fun of Tyler.  Yes, I know getting teased is a normal part of childhood, but it made me want to grab the kid by the collar and put the fear of God in him. 

 Even now, when Tyler is almost 23 years old, if someone makes fun of him transitioning to a woman (particularly with how he looks), I feel mama bear getting riled up. Now, that doesn't mean I act on it. For me, controlling mama bear is a part of the process of separating from your child and letting them become an adult.

 Have you had any Mama Bear moments recently? The article linked below has some good tips, too!

 Author's Note: Article quote was taken from How to Be a Good Mama Bear by Nancy Jergins. 

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